I observe lately that when you are freshly introduced to somebody
they tend normally to exclaim, “What’s up?” and in certain extreme cases,
“Sup”. Label me as coming across as most old-fashioned, but I find the
resonance of those words tasteless, almost uncouth. Methinks, the correct
manner of acknowledgement would be to shake hands rather firmly, and express
with a sociable smile – “Pleased to make your acquaintance.” Or, “Most
delighted to meet you.”
I dare say that politeness and gentleness, as some claim, do not
make you appear stuck up or even stiff upper lip. They are manners as
rudimentary as foreplay is to orgasm, and alas, such etiquettes have been lost
to the shabbiness of existing times.
One must let the world do as it chooses, yet, if one finds that one has
fallen a victim to such absurdities, the sensible thing to do would be to re-examine
and reclaim your conduct to its former repute. Remember, and always, that it is
never too late to make amends, with life, or yourself.
On a somewhat serious note, when struck with self-doubt, do look up
Douglas Booth on Twitter @DouglasBooth. He is a refined gentleman. And the
world knows that it requires a role model for keeping the bearings of its youth
intact. If not anything, idealising Doug will certainly help in setting you
back on your path to balance and finesse considering that he is somebody who
reflects the evergreen charm of yesterday, today, and not without the
genteelness most required for you to manoeuvre the world tomorrow with grace and
gallantry.
