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Water Lily In My Garden


Saw this blooming water lily in my garden this morning. Captured it on my iPhone and sharing my joy with everyone as the words of William Wordsworth from the lines that he wrote in the early spring of 1798 flashed in my mind - 'This my faith that every flower. Enjoys the air it breathes!

SCIENTIA By Lladró

This is what happens when you discover Instagram - you begin to 'see art' in art.



Never be afraid to sit awhile and think.


These are photographs I captured of one of my favourites, the SCIENTIA by Lladró. When I set my eyes on it the first time it reminded me of the Thinker by Auguste Rodin. Clearly, I, or anyone for that matter cannot imagine myself owning the real one by Rodin, (of whom I am an ardent admirer). And since I am not into collecting replicas, I decided that the SCIENTIA, which represents the mind and the reason that guides man in search of knowledge, and helps him achieve wisdom, juxtaposed with the essential formulas of physics and mathematics was what it was going to be. This marvellous piece has been sculpted by master sculptor Ernest Massuet. 

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe


I have come to the frightening conclusion that I am the decisive element. It is my personal approach that creates the climate. It is my daily mood that makes the weather. I possess tremendous power to make life miserable or joyous. I can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration; I can humiliate or humour, hurt or heal. In all situations, it is my response that decides whether a crisis is escalated or de-escalated, and a person is humanized or de-humanized. If we treat people as they are, we make them worse. If we treat people, as they ought to be, we help them become what they are capable of becoming.

~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Mélanie Laurent - my latest crush!


I watched Beginners directed by Mike Mills and found myself head over heels over Mélanie Laurent. What an incredible element of reserved intelligence she reflects in the movie. A charming way of dominating the screen by doing nothing and yet lighting it up by her magic. She is not a ravishing beauty, but she is very pretty, and very attractive. Somewhere, she reminded me of the enticing exquisiteness of Marion Cotillard, the restrained élan of Emmanuella Béart, the sensuousness of my all time favourite Juliette Binoche, or the aloofness and mystery of Catherine Deneuve.
  


I am unable to resist myself from labelling her my present crush!



Be Back Soon!

For Ritz



Gone - flitted away,
Taken the stars from the night and the sun
From the day!
Gone, and a cloud in my heart.

Love you immeasurably, immensely and infinitely my bro. Have a great time in Napier and after a year please be back. I don't think all of us will be able to survive without you any longer than that.

Akshay Oberoi


When you observe today’s youth with the, “What’s up?” and “Dude!” culture you wonder whether they would by any chance have remnants of the manners that we were raised with, where to utter a thank you or a sorry was a way of life and not considered anything out of the ordinary, or, to rise from the chair when a woman entered a room and left the room was a custom, which most of the youth of today find rather old-fashioned and amusing. Just when you think there is no scope for transformation in a civilization so occupied with its own self, you, by mere accident, come across someone who is very much part of the, “What’s up, dude?” ethos and yet maintains a distinct thoroughbred approach to life. 

Most recently, I was admiring what Martin Luther King Jr. had done to mankind and while seeking inspiration and direction from the life of someone older I had failed to realise that I did not have to look that far because inspiration and direction was only at an arms distance from me in form of the kids around me who I had taken for granted but discovered are great beyond words would ever express. That's when I found myself observing Akshay a lot more carefully and discovered that his humility was matchless. An epitome of polish, his attention to make sure that he conveyed what he had to, and yet not ever cross the thin line of respect regardless of not only being younger, but more like friends, was something that I truly admired in him. In time, I made out how the heart of people would swell with joy upon the mention of his name and how my mind would be filled with reverence when I saw the love people had for him because I knew he was someone who would give them, who loved him, much more than they could imagine – something that was elemental to his nature. At the same time too I could not but think that the tenderness and kindness I saw in him, as some would perceive them today, are not signs of his weakness and despair but clear manifestations of his strength and resolution, and this is something that is so easily a second skin to describe Akshay to those who do not really know him.

To go a little back in time, I would like to throw light on something when Akshay’s motion picture appeared on the silver screens. Despite the fact that it filled me up with delight so see that he had grown up into this admirable young man filled with candour and depth, I sent him a text one evening knowing that he was at a popular awards function that read thus:

“Bro, I can’t wait for the day I see you receive your first award. To say the least, as such I am proud of who you have made of yourself, but I will certainly be even prouder on that particular day since the world would then look up to you as it ought to with great pride. Let us see that day soon, my Kidd. Soon!!!”

And the response I obtained was this:

“My, bro, this is one of the nicest messages I have ever received. Will work my ass off to fulfil what I came here for. I hope I make you proud, in the years to come. Thanks for the encouragement.”

That’s when I figured that what a marvellous blend of both worlds these kids of today have amassed, and it would be very unjust if I didn’t conclude with the feeling that indeed it is so very true that our outward nature is nothing but a reflection of who we are inside and what a better way to see that in none other than Akshay. 

I know you will make a great deal of difference to not only the people around you but to the world at large and as ever, I am PROUD OF YOU, Akshay!


Isi Life Mein - 2010



Jack Palance: “Do you know what the secret of life is? One thing. Just one thing. You stick to that and everything else don’t mean shit.”
Billy Crystal: “Yeah, but what’s that one thing?”
Jack Palance: “That’s what you’ve got to figure out.”

~ From the movie City Slickers

The above so fittingly illustrates the premise of the motion picture Isi Life Mein. To elaborate on it a bit more, I would have to furnish you a quick preview into the present circumstances surrounding the picture. For starters, it is so true that in fiction one discovers the truth that more often than not reality obscures. And to follow that up, I am but appalled at the disinterest of the press to have dealt harshly with a sensitive film that deals with several complex issues, and that too at a calm and collected, but most definitely effective pace. This is where I feel what a weird lot the media is indeed – they embrace rubbish packaged smartly by those who know how to hoodwink people and willingly aid in filling up their coffers while when something worthy comes along they knock it down throwing the public off course.

I don’t care about what others think of it and I also don’t care about what they think of me, but on the whole I quite enjoyed the movie. Certainly, it’s not earth shattering but it’s not a disappointment either. To begin with I wouldn’t oppose the fact that the first half of the film, despite the usage of certain imperative elements that appealed to me such as mention of Shakespeare (The Taming of the Shrew) upon which the play in the movie is based. The mention of The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand was also welcoming considering that youngsters of that age are rather infatuated by the characters in that book. Yet despite all that there was still something vague, weak and loud about the first half. The bunch of boys and girls as Akshay’s friends were tolerable but their issues were sketchy. It is as if they were put there without any reason, especially the matter concerning the slightly overweight chap. Just because somebody thinks of us in a certain way must not make us alter ourselves unless we want to transform from within. Besides, I was not sure what the French-speaking character was put in for since she made no contribution to the film and was utterly annoying. That said the scenes lacked memorable humour as they moved on. The writer should have put in a little more effort since the highlight was the youth. If not anything it would have given her a wide platform to tap into the humorous side and the given the audience some moments to relish. I seriously felt that Akshay as Vivaan had been made to appear a bit too over-enthusiastic – so very unlike his character, unless it had been done deliberately to show how the lad so full of life could express more without the support of words post intermission. Sandeepa Dhar as Rajnandani aka RJ is boring in the first half though she gets a chance to exhibit her onscreen proficiency more evidently in the second and this is where I felt that the second half of the film was actually far deeper than the former.

It would be unfair if I didn’t admit that the double standards we see so rampant in the society, the oppression the women face in the hands of a patriarchal system at home and the misconception that the urban people are hardly as sensitive as the rural folk depicted is laudable. The paradox of how some of us lay blame on the western culture in spoiling us has been beautifully symbolised by the splendid behaviour of some of the characters. I feel no matter how modern in our approach we might become, we are yet very much Indian at heart and you cannot take away our traditions and manners from us irrespective of our outer garb. It’s a marvellous movie about giving shape to your ideas. About working hard to make them a reality. Of not succumbing to peer pressure but making them seeing your point of view backed by substantial proof. Several pertinent and prevailing subjects have been embarked upon and tackled sensitively without making them appear like ‘in your face messages’. For instance the character of RJ’s mother is short, pivotal and very well-defined. I liked the precise manner in which her dialogues have been penned. Her tone is firm without being imposing and how instrumental she is in bringing around her husband without the assistance of cliché or histrionics is noteworthy. Hailing from an intrinsic traditional background the decision of RJ’s father to put the wedding off is a first step to progress cinematically at least. If it changes even a single person, then I think the work of the film is done, not forgetting that it is a welcome break indeed from the melodrama we are so used to watching on screen. I say this because one can take something simple and make a melodrama out of it and then like life, which is but simple, move us with its simplicity, which is what Isi Life Mein does without a murmur. I cherished the scenes where RJ is probing whether Akshay and his former girlfriend had made love. How Akshay deals with the situation was handled competently. The other adorable scenes are how RJ makes her friend wash her mouth for swearing absurdities at a drop of a hat. The scene where Akshay attempts to show RJ the silver lining about pursuing her career as a choreographer but seeks clarity himself is also something I quite appreciated. We’ve all been there before, haven’t we? Where we are the rock for those who mean the world to us and yet depend on them to guide us. 

I am sure that some people would think Akshay’s character is a loser to stand and watch the woman he loves being married away before him and does not even bat an eyelid to express his bleeding heart. While each one is entitled to individual opinions, I think him a true hero. You don’t go about seizing what you think is yours against the displeasure of the family. I found his character respectable, who after knowing that the woman he loved was agreeable for the wedding and stayed with the decisions her family had taken, stuck to himself rather than creating a ruckus which is customarily shown for shock value in movies but is hardly so in real life. He knows that selfishness and defiance only leads to destruction and that love is not about snatching what you want but that its essence lies in seeing the one you love happy. Owing to his age in the film I thought that it was a very smart but subtle reflection of human nature. Cheers to the writer and director for taking that stand rather than trivialising it.
 

To preserve a man alive in the midst of so many chances and hostilities, is as great a miracle as to create him and that’s exactly what I feel of Akshay Oberoi. He has the aptitude to play this charming chap with immense flair and yet you can see that regardless of his Casanova like manner, he is someone who can stir you with a mature performance as well. What is much needed to survive in the industry is ability and stability and on both those grounds I found Akshay efficient and alluring. He puts his facial vocabulary to correct use and it doesn’t take any rocket science to figure that in time he will be a star that will shine in the streetlights of eternity if he keeps his head on his shoulders. Another reason I most admire him for is that unlike the many influential youth of today with firm film backgrounds he could have chosen something really fancy for his debut film and yet he selected to do Isi Life Mein, a simple and sweet movie and we must give him his due for this decision.

Sandeepa Dhar is not great, but an actor you can watch in the role that has been essayed out for her. I felt she is a bit too conscious and tends to add this element of exaggeration to some of the scenes. Looking at it realistically one knows that she is not going to be a Kareena or Katrina but going forward I thought her conventional looks might land her some befitting roles and also result in slightly limiting in the range of roles offered to her. Then again one cannot simply underestimate the audience today and they might simply lap her up much against my opinion on her.

Music by Meet Bros is average although the song Isi Umar Mein by Mohit Chauhan is ridiculously infectious and stayed with me.

What Isi Life Mein has taught me is that living a life is merely not enough and that one must have freedom, sunshine and a little flower to keep us going. What a pity that the bad reviews have robbed the masses of time well spent in the company of people who while having fun themselves also end up teaching you a valuable thing or two about survival. So much for the pathetic press who knows not how to discern between processed garbage and real substance. And I want to tell the public that when we cannot support those whom we really ought to be supporting then why should we pay money to see bad films when we can stay home and see bad television for nothing instead?

PS: After all that, what actually went wrong with the film some would ask? Honestly, a sloppy first half that appeared as if it had been written in a hurry. And an overall poor packaging as well. A tad bit of care could have added that missing zing to the entire film I suppose. Isi Life Mein is a classic case of when most unfortunately bad things happen to good people. However, there is no limiting true talent and once the moonlight lifts, the sun shall soon shine.

BAND BAAJA BAARAAT – 2010



The Quiet Poetry of Unintended Art: On Cinema and the Soul’s Subtle Nourishment

— A meditation on the inexplicable grace of film and its kinship with the quiet verse of everyday life.

 

I have often thought that life, in all its splendour, is also remarkably absurd—a curious range of seemingly aimless episodes, where our words vanish almost as swiftly as they are uttered. And yet, amid the jests and trifles, the endless he-said-she-said of human discourse, something strangely beautiful occurs: we compose a kind of poetry. Not the sort penned with deliberation, but a spontaneous, living verse born of unguarded moments. If we resist the urge to scrutinise it too fiercely—if we let it settle into the soul like sunlight on still water—this poetry begins to shape the very rhythm of our days.

 

This sensation, overwhelming though it is, finds its closest echo for me in cinema. Whether foolish or profound, poetic or prosaic, true or illusory—films speak a language understood not by the mind alone, but by the heart and the senses alike. We do not merely watch them; we breathe them in, chew them over, savour their essence. And when rightly absorbed, they nourish us—imparting not only fashions and moods, but something akin to well-being, even a quiet joy that clings to the spirit like a fragrance long after the final frame has faded.

 

A House Once Glorious: Remembering Yash Raj and the Slow Return of Grace

— A personal reckoning with disillusionment and the cautious rekindling of trust in a faltering cinematic legacy.

 

I cannot now recall the last occasion on which I watched a film bearing the venerable insignia of Yash Raj Films. This absence was not born of any quarrel with the house itself—for what could one hold against a name that once conjured such splendour? Rather, it was sorrow, not scorn, that kept me away—a quiet disenchantment with the direction the studio had taken. What had once been a mausoleum of storytelling, painstakingly built brick-by-brick under the discerning eye of Yash uncle and his noble companions, seemed now adrift—its legacy bruised by unwise commerce and the eager but fumbling hands of a younger generation.

 

When their grand spectacles—laden with stars and noise—began to stumble and fall like overfed giants, there came, almost miraculously, a film called Chak De. I did not see it, and yet I noticed it. Not because of the ever-bankable presence of Shahrukh Khan, but because, by all accounts, here at last was a film where the story—not the stardust—held the reins. Content, they said, was king. I believed them, and that belief felt like the faint pulse of a studio remembering its soul.

 

When Fanaa was in the making, I took note—for Ravi K. Chandran, a cherished friend, was behind the lens, and Aamir Khan, whose family I have known with long affection, played the lead. And yet I stayed away. There was something missing—an indescribable vigour, a heartbeat I could not hear.

 

Then came Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi, and though again Ravi lent his gifted eye to the project, and though it marked the debut of Anushka Sharma—a young lady from my own city of Bangalore who had, by happy coincidence, modelled for some dear friends in fashion—it still left me unmoved. The glimpses I caught on television seemed hollow, like an echo of a song once lovely but now too often sung.

 

And so time slipped by, as it always does, with quiet indifference. Then, just last week, in one of those aimless hours when one neither thinks nor dreams with purpose, I found myself perusing the current cinema listings. Amidst the gaudy posters and forgettable titles, one image caught my eye—Band Baaja Baaraat. I knew nothing of it. I had seen no preview, read no review. Yet something in its posture—unguarded, almost cheerful—drew me in. And so, without expectation or reason, I resolved to see it.

 

The Arrival of an Uncut Gem: Ranveer Singh and the Restoration of Sincerity

— A tribute to the rare authenticity of a debut performance, and the hope it offers to a weary industry.

 

With no expectation save the mild curiosity awakened by a well-designed poster, I found myself seated in the dim hush of the cinema, awaiting what I presumed would be a passable diversion. But scarcely had the opening credits faded and the narrative begun to unfurl, when I beheld for the first time the countenance of Ranveer Singh. And in that moment, I knew—with the kind of quiet certainty one rarely experiences—that I would remain with this film to its very end.

 

For here was no mere performer straining to impress. No, Ranveer’s presence was of a different order: one felt an immediate and effervescent euphoria, not shouted but shared, as though he had stumbled upon the art of touching hearts without ever seeming to try. His energy was not the exhausting sort, but a buoyant current, tempered with an innocence rare and a dignity rarer still. It struck me, as I watched, that such a quality had long been absent from our screens—perhaps forgotten altogether in an age increasingly enamoured with spectacle and artifice.

 

As the story wove on, my admiration deepened. The lad carried his role with such ease, such intuitive grace, that one might be tempted to forget the labour behind the craft. I thought to myself, If only he resists the glittering temptation to ascend too swiftly by way of those directors whose reputations are large, but whose works are hollow… For in our times, it is all too easy to confuse fame with mastery, and many a fine talent has been spent in service of mediocrity disguised as vision.

 

If he remains unswerving—if he chooses scripts that stretch rather than flatter him, and continues to refine the subtle sensitivity already evident in his art—then I do not believe he will falter. He may stumble, yes, as all men do when treading uncertain ground. But fall? I think not.

 

The very next day, I came upon a report in the newspaper which told me that young Ranveer had publicly expressed his gratitude to the filmmakers for entrusting him with the role, acknowledging the risk they had taken in casting an unknown. But I must confess, my thoughts ran quite the other way. It is not Ranveer who owes thanks to Yash Raj Films, but they who ought to thank him. For in his performance, they found not only the beating heart of Band Baaja Baaraat, but a long-overdue revival of their own reputation—a resurrection, if you will, from a season of lacklustre offerings.

 

Indeed, fortune smiled on both: on Ranveer, for being placed in a role no one—save perhaps a Shahid Kapur—could have honoured so convincingly; and on YRF, for having found in him an uncut gem who has, by sheer authenticity, restored to them a measure of lost glory.

 

Of Restraint and Radiance: Anushka Sharma and the Grace of Simplicity

— A reflection on quiet strength, natural talent, and the virtue of not seeking more than one is.

 

As I have previously confessed, I hold a quiet fondness for Anushka Sharma—one that stems not merely from her roots in my own city, but from her auspicious debut in a film captured by the discerning lens of my friend, Ravi K. Chandran. It is true, I have not followed her career with any particular diligence since then, and yet, Band Baaja Baaraat has made something plain to me: when rightly cast and sensitively directed, she reveals herself as an actress of genuine substance.

 

There is no denying the charm of her presence—she occupies the screen with a confidence that neither demands nor pleads for attention, but earns it by the quiet force of authenticity. What is most striking, perhaps, is her restraint: she does not fall prey to the theatrical excesses that often mar the performances of the inexperienced. One senses that she understands—perhaps instinctively—that her natural self is already a gift well worth offering. She does not embellish what needs no ornament.

 

From this point onward, I shall be watching with interest, and with hope. My wish for her is simple: that she may be granted not merely roles, but worthy roles—those that speak to her vision of herself and stretch the fine thread of her talent without fraying it. For she has already shown that she can deliver what is required; she now deserves the opportunity to deliver what is great.

 

Craft over Clatter: On Directorial Integrity and the Return of Honest Storytelling

— An appreciation of the film’s creators, their restraint, and the quiet truths embedded in their work.

 

As for the director, young Maneesh Sharma reveals himself to be a craftsman of no small ability. His touch is confident, his choices largely wise, and—most refreshing of all—he resists the garish indulgences that have become habitual within the Yash Raj fold. Gone, mercifully, are the improbable dream sequences set in alien landscapes more suited to travel brochures than human drama. In their place, we are given something far more precious: a story that breathes the air of its own soil, and a world that feels not manufactured but inhabited.

 

The screenplay by Habib Faisal does not dazzle with ornament, but it moves with purpose, taking us precisely where it intends. In its unassuming stride, it teaches—though never preaches—lessons not only of love, but of that rarer and nobler virtue: fellowship. It is a quiet truth, often neglected in tales of romance, that the greatest wonders are worked not by grand gestures alone, but in the steady labour of those whose souls are attuned to one another. This film remembers that, and honours it.

 

The music, too, deserves its applause. There is a vigour in the compositions—a liveliness not contrived but contagious. That the songs are bound closely to the plot gives them an integrity often missing in such fare. They belong, not as adornments, but as chapters in the story’s own rhythm.

 

I must, however, speak plainly of a moment where the film falters. The rupture between the two protagonists—Ranveer and Anushka—is portrayed with a kind of dramatic excess that strains belief. Now, I concede: human beings, when injured in matters of the heart, do not always behave nobly or even logically. But there is a line between the trivial and the petty, and here, I fear, the characters—having built something with mutual respect and effort—regress too sharply into the pettiness of petulant children. Their behaviour, so out of tune with the maturity they had hitherto displayed, pulled me momentarily from the world the film had so carefully constructed.

 

Yet despite this blemish, the film retains a quality too often lacking: freshness. The premise, though faintly reminiscent of The Wedding Planner, stands on its own with grace. The film draws from familiar wells, yes, but manages still to quench. There is a delicacy in the execution—a gentleness with which the story is handled—that made me forgive its reliance on certain time-worn tropes.

 

One moment, in particular, I found both delightful and quietly profound: the subtle satire on celebrity culture, and the unvarnished truth of how great stars descend upon weddings for a fee, like heavenly bodies hired for the evening. The scene in which Ranveer persuades a bride that the real star of her wedding is not a film idol but the man who has chosen to love her is, I think, a moment of quiet brilliance. For in it lies a deeper truth: that no glory, however loud, can outshine the quiet radiance of genuine affection. We need not wait for a Shahrukh Khan to bestow grace upon our lives; we need only open our eyes to the everyday beloved, and recognise the wonder already at hand.

 

Of Intimacy, Language, and the Courage to Be True

— A contemplation on evolving femininity, emotional nuance, and the quiet rebellion of being natural in a world of deception.

 

There were, I must add, certain subtleties within the film that struck me as both refreshing and admirably honest. Chief among them was the portrayal of a young woman who does not retreat into shame or self-reproach for having expressed her desire physically. There is no hollow drama here, no overwrought moralising—only a quiet, sincere rendering of a moment shared between two people who, in that instant, are simply human.

 

What followed—those immediate, inarticulate tremors of confusion and consequence—was, I felt, handled with remarkable finesse. The film captures with rare precision how the subconscious, that hidden architect of our emotions, silently infiltrates the conscious mind. A subtle shift in language—from tu to tum—becomes a symbol of distance and delicacy, of intimacy altered by awareness. Such a small detail, and yet so telling; for often in love, it is not what is said, but how it is said, that tells us whether we are drawing nearer or drifting away.

 

It is also noteworthy how the film reflects the quiet evolution of society—how women, in particular, are increasingly at ease with their agency, even in matters that once bore a cloak of secrecy or shame. The dignity with which this shift is portrayed speaks well of the filmmakers, and gives the audience a chance to reflect without being instructed.

 

And now, if I may turn to a different, more corporeal observation: I have noticed a curious trend of late in our cinema—the pursuit of an almost androgynous aesthetic among leading men, as if masculinity were something to be polished away. One sees them waxed and gleaming, as though sculpted not by nature but by the same pretence that prepares a showroom dummy. Ranveer Singh, to his quiet credit, has resisted this tide. Though he bears a physique that might tempt any man toward vanity, he preserves a look that is unmanufactured, a body that still belongs to the species that builds, breaks, and bleeds.

 

 

It may seem a trivial point, and yet I would argue it is not. There is something noble in allowing men to look like men and women to look like women, not by rigid standards, but by the unspoken dignity of being true to one’s own form. For in a world ever blurring its lines, there is still room—indeed, a need—for distinction. And in this, Ranveer earns one more mark of quiet praise.

 

A Plea for Imagination: On Legacy, Gratitude, and the Courage to Choose Wisely

— A final exhortation to preserve creative integrity and remember the wellspring from which true storytelling flows.

 

In conclusion, it is my earnest hope that Aditya Chopra (Adi, as we call him)—and those who presently preside over the creative destiny of Yash Raj Films—will not allow the triumph of this particular work to dull the edge of their imagination. Success, though a sweet thing, is a dangerous counsellor. It often tempts its recipients to repetition rather than innovation, and in doing so, places at risk the very sparkle that won the victory in the first place. May they not fall into the weary habit of casting actors according to convenience or commercial certainty, thereby imperilling the very lives they have so carefully and providentially set into motion on the screen.

 

In green-lighting this screenplay, YRF have offered a quiet assurance to their audience—that they have, at last, begun to learn from the missteps of the past and are finding their way, however tentatively, back to the road of creative integrity. It is a hopeful sign. I recall with affection how Adi once gave my friend, Jimmy Sheirgill, a fine platform in Mohabbatein, allowing a sincere talent to be seen and heard. And now, with this film, he has done something perhaps more urgent: he has given us Ranveer—a necessary breath of fresh air in a cinematic world stifled by dynastic surnames and the dull entitlement they too often carry.

 

For too long now, we have watched a parade of the well-connected and ill-prepared walk across our screens with no understanding of the craft they pretend to possess. They are given opportunity upon opportunity, as if inheritance were a substitute for insight. In contrast, here is a young man who possesses not only energy but humility, not only talent but the willingness to shape it. For bringing such a one to light, Adi deserves, not flattery, but thanks.

 

And should he, in future days, find himself again uncertain of what stories to tell or whom to trust in the telling of them, I would simply say: do not look too far, dear Adi. Knock gently upon the door of Yash Uncle’s legacy—the wisdom is there, waiting. And if you listen closely, I believe you will not go wrong.

 

 





FOR MY DEAR CHOTU!!!

  

For my Chotu —  

 

My brother, my confidant, and the companion of my soul’s deepest musings. In his gentle courage and unwavering sincerity, he has shown me a truth that the world is oft reluctant to admit — that the earnest heart walks a perilous path in the eyes of the multitude, and yet it must not flinch. For he has taught me that though the world may mock the thoughtful man, it is thoughtfulness that anchors the soul amid the storm.

 

He has reminded me — not merely in word but in the quiet integrity of his life — that while theory may be grey and lifeless as ashes, the living tree of experience bears leaves ever green, ever golden.

 

And so, for all that he is and all that he continues to draw forth in me, I can echo no sentiment more fitting than the bard’s own: “I can no other answer make but thanks, and thanks, and ever thanks, my dear Chotuuuuuu!

 

Image Copyright (c) Farahdeen Khan  

Location: Taj Vivanta. Whitefield

THE CURE BEYOND THE CARTON



One does not require the paraphernalia so industriously marketed by modern science to liberate the soul from the clutches of a cigarette—be it the sleek electronic vaporiser masquerading as a lesser evil, the patch that promises deliverance by degrees, or even the solemn circles of Nicotine Anonymous where testimonies echo with well-intentioned despair. Nor is one likely to find redemption in the morbid gallery of images plastered upon cigarette packs—those ghastly portraits of decay meant to evoke fear, yet rarely touching the heart with conviction. All these, though perhaps fashioned with good intent, remain but external instruments—mere scaffolding erected around a problem whose root lies deeper within.

 

No, the truth—plain, unfashionable, and rarely spoken in the antiseptic halls of public health—is this: what a man truly needs, if he is ever to break the chains of such an enslaving habit, is not a product or a program, but a person. Not merely anyone, and certainly not one of those shallow infatuations which we so easily mistake for love, but someone whom he truly, unwaveringly, and self-forgetfully loves. Someone before whom all pretence falls away, whose well-being is dearer to him than his own fleeting comfort or momentary pleasure. It is in such a relationship—authentic, luminous, and profoundly human—that the desire to smoke withers not by command, but by choice.

 

For when such a one—this beloved soul—looks into your eyes, not with condemnation but with earnest care, and asks you to stop—to truly stop—you will find that the ember’s allure fades into ash. The hand which once reached for the lighter now trembles with a new resolve. Not out of guilt, nor even fear, but out of love—a love that sees beyond the smoke to the life it wishes to preserve.

 

And in that moment, without drama or spectacle, the real miracle happens. You do not quit for your health, or your lungs, or your wallet. You quit because someone matters more. And that, my darlings, is a far more potent medicine than any patch or pill could ever hope to be.