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BLOOD BONDS BROTHERHOOD




“Farahdeen,” said a senior journalist who’s work can be found in most leading news dailies, “I have been following your updates on your little brother Sushant.”
“You have?” I answered rather thrilled, “thank you for your time, sir.”
“The affection you feel for him is like the affection I feel for my younger brother,” he made known, “and it is inspiring to see this connection between two who aren’t related to each other by blood, but my brother is my own flesh,” he paused, “what I don’t understand is how can one care for someone else like one cares for one’s own blood?”
I breathed, “I wish I had the skill to explain it to you, sir,” I said, “all the same if there is anything deeper than deep, then it has to be that…I don’t know anything beyond.”

Coming to think of it, isn’t this misconception something that has plagued people, from time immemorial, and from all walks of life – your blood is your blood, and anybody not sharing that blood is a stranger, an outsider. I may not have the politically correct response to that, but this I can say without doubt that when two individuals share profound love for each other: the kind of love that a parent feels for a child, or, a brother feels for a brother, which is plausible without having to share the same DNA, then the equation changes, and the idea of ‘blood is thicker than water’ does not hold any substance. However, majority of our population has been raised with such a concept that blood is thicker than water, and once again, I do not possess the authority to challenge that adage, but yes, this is what I can say with certainty – first, speaking about the physical properties such as viscosity etcetera, blood may indeed be thicker than water, but there ends the relation, and second, without water there is no scope for blood to make more blood, so for me, together, they are essential to one’s life.

I have always believed that bonds aren’t biological. My first book’s preface indicated the same. I reckon that it isn’t such a foreign thought to each of you as well, and you have all felt deep love for someone who isn’t related to you by blood at some point in your lives. And that this love is far stronger than what you might have felt for those related to you by blood. We cannot attempt to vanquish something that is so acutely ingrained in society, but we can definitely wish that people embraced those they love, with the same inclusion, as they would their kin, and that in matters such as these it would be prudent to follow our hearts and not entirely our minds. For that is the wonderful thing about love, isn’t it – it is just as great a gift for the giver as it is for the one who receives it.

“What if Sushant was not popular. How would you have met him? Do you think that you love him a little more because of who he is? Would you have missed giving him that love, if he wasn’t your Chotu (little brother) as you regularly address him as?” asked the journalist friend in the same conversation.

I do agree that if my Sushant was not in the profession he was in currently, then the chances of meeting him, considering the geographical differences, would have been slim, but god has his unfathomable ways of bringing whom he wants to bring together even if one were to be on the opposite side of the globe, where it might take a year, or it might take a day, but what is meant to be will always find its way. Likewise, this may perchance sound mystical or barmy even, but there is far more to connections than what our common mind might conjecture about them. There is something galactic that entwines people in such glorious ways that once their paths cross, life without them can seldom be the same. And such intergalactic clashes happen with such unfailing intensity that the union stays unbroken until the ones involved in it do not breathe their last. What’s more? You don’t have to be in each other’s face all the time. You don’t have to be involved in each other’s life all the time, and yet that attachment is so powerful and sturdy and unwavering that verbal expression might not quite be able to communicate the exactness of what the feeling means to those who are living within that circle of blessed bliss.

Becoming someone famous is about timing, or even about luck. Agreed, my Sushant’s hard work, coupled by the benevolence of the creator, has led him to be where he is. And we, the family, respect that from the deepest echelons of our hearts. But we, the family, don’t love him because of what the world thinks of him, or what he is to the world. We love him for him. And even if he were not what he is now, our love would never diminish. It is not tactile; it is embedded within the nucleus of our hearts, or the soul, if there is something such as the soul. As for ‘would I miss giving my Chotu that love’ well, I am a much better human being because of the love he gives me, and I try in earnestness to be more like him with those around me like he is to those around him.

Remember that love should not be based on nature or stature, just as some relationships aren’t based on what you can get out of them, but rather whirl on what you can give them.

Remember, nearly everything in life should be based on the fibre of the love you feel for whom you feel it for and nothing but.

Remember, that when it comes to your brother, love can ebb and flow: we feel different at different times, but it cannot whiffle waffle with time or tide – it ought to be unconditional. Timeless.

Remember that love is universal, but brotherhood is exclusive.

Leaving you with something my Sushant had shared on Twitter on Wednesday, the 8th of February 2017: 

Just a heads up – this planet is taking us at 30km/sec toward our finality. Let’s make sure we Live ‘today’.

And even more binding is what my bade bhaiyya Jimmy (Sheirgill) had shared on Twitter on Monday, 6th February 2017:

Birth: GIVEN BY OTHERS
Name: GIVEN BY OTHERS
Education: GIVEN BY OTHERS
Income: GIVEN BY OTHERS
Respect: GIVEN BY OTHERS
First & Last Bath: GIVEN BY OTHERS
After Death Your Belongings And Property: WILL BE TAKEN BY OTHERS
Funeral Service: WILL BE DONE BY OTHERS

And I still wonder why we have the unnecessary EGO and PROBLEMS. Let us all simplify our lives and love and live with others peacefully.

Let those words sink into you. Be kind. Be humble. Love. That’s all that matters.


MOHIT SURI and SIDHARTH MALHOTRA

MOHIT SURI and SIDHARTH MALHOTRA

Two avatars of mastery to make hay while the sun shines in 2014


I hadn’t watched any Hindi film after my buddy Mohit’s Aashiqui 2. Every aspect of that landmark film stays fresh in my mind even today, and nothing seemed to interest me really until the pep in the posters of Hasee Toh Phasee drew my attention. Parineeti’s spontaneous quirkiness I had witnessed in Ladies Vs Ricky Bahl, yet I had no clue about the male lead. Upon googling I read that the young lad Sidharth Malhotra was the assistant director in My Name Is Khan shot by my friend Ravi K. Chandran, and so I figured it would not hurt to watch it. Watch the film I did, and came away from the theatre pleasantly surprised at having witnessed a rare and sincere combination of quality and eminence on screen. What further pleased me was in an age where we have fabulous actors like Aditya Roy Kapur, Ranbir Kapoor and Ranveer Singh, in Sidharth Malhotra I saw another outstanding lifetime member in the club of the talented and timeless. I messaged my big brother Subi enquiring whether he had shot with the kid because I wanted to compliment him considering that it had been ages that I had watched such erudite radiance on the large screen. 

Taking a short detour, I ought to add that I have eternally considered my buddy Jimmy Shergill quite the benchmark of extraordinary talent and humility. Somebody who has done some of the finest movies and yet unafraid to experiment with any genre, actor, director so long as the script excites him. The Aditya’s and Ranbir’s had their own niches carved, so did the others who were contemporaries when Jim had stepped into the film industry, and yet he managed to make his mark in a competitive world, and after Jim had I witnessed such panache in form of Sid on the silver screen, and it made no difference who was in competition with Sid because with just two movies to his credit it was clear that he had already fashioned his calling with his own stamp of artistry and dynamism. What’s more? He was blessed with this natural aptitude to woo the world with his limitless reserve of virtuosity, and it mattered less whom he was being paired with regardless of gender, connection or stature. 

It is one thing to win hearts with histrionics, and yet quite entirely another to sprinkle a bit of your magic in the character etched for you. Only when the latter combination is found in a flawless balance would it engulf the viewer with undivided attention, and this is the magnetism that I have always observed in Jimmy and now find in abundance in Sidharth. 

Elder brother Subi said that he had heard that the kid sported a pleasant demeanour and when he shot with him he would definitely have me speak with him. I messaged my friends from Viveck Vaswani to Arjun Sablok telling them how thrilled I was that we had in our midst now an actor of great renown. What, however, added to the delight was when I learnt that he was doing Mohit’s next film: The Villain. I had met Mohit at Subi’s wedding and have kept in touch with him since. I’ve studied him from his experimental phase to what he has presently grown into — a complete genius, burnished by time and the best around him. Not only did I admire Mohit for the great human being that he is, I loved him more so because he has that special ability to decipher human nature and its hues like many only think they are mastering, but are sadly only scratching the surface. Mo, also has this intuitive ability to pick the finest and furbishing them with an uncontested sheen and that is exactly why I eagerly await The Villain, because under the expert orchestration of Mohit whom I could refer to as no less than a lighthouse I know it is certainly going to make history with a cast as adroit as Sidharth Malhotra, the inimitable Shraddha Kapoor, the versatile Riteish Deshmukh and his lucky charm Shaad Randhawa.  

Tumbling back to Sid now, I feel that his elegant demeanour, his shy, humble screen presence is more than sufficient to leave an unmistakable impression on his audience. He is an actor whose distinguishing mannerisms and boyish charm (that he has naturally knitted around as his own style) could be most comfortably used in manifold ways to further the behavioural pattern of the youth and help level society. Although he needs to work hard, very, on his dancing skills, since our industry quite warrants such forms of functional training that they title as dance, his additional strength, methinks, is his mesmerising dignity that works wonders even in the absence of any dialogues. Add to that he has a distinctive voice with a gentle drawl that enhances the endearing perfectionist quality of his down-to-earth persona. 

I soon procured a copy of his film first, Student Of The Year and after watching it I felt that he has portrayed the average Indian middle class man with everyday life struggles with a sense of respect in both his films. And this is where I think that his fans are sure to benefit from the values that he is advocating as it would certainly leave a positive impact on the youth who idolise him as their hero.

Finally, we have Mo, our wizard of Bombay, and then we have Sid, a great actor and gentleman, and their superlative combination is sure to break barriers yet again and offer the generations to follow another benchmark in cinema that would leave them revelling in the sparkle of these two great powerhouses.  

Mo! 
Best with The Villain. 
You are our national treasure!

Sid! 
Proud of you. 
Thank you for being an original in a time of clones!


BAND BAAJA BAARAAT – 2010



The Quiet Poetry of Unintended Art: On Cinema and the Soul’s Subtle Nourishment

— A meditation on the inexplicable grace of film and its kinship with the quiet verse of everyday life.

 

I have often thought that life, in all its splendour, is also remarkably absurd—a curious range of seemingly aimless episodes, where our words vanish almost as swiftly as they are uttered. And yet, amid the jests and trifles, the endless he-said-she-said of human discourse, something strangely beautiful occurs: we compose a kind of poetry. Not the sort penned with deliberation, but a spontaneous, living verse born of unguarded moments. If we resist the urge to scrutinise it too fiercely—if we let it settle into the soul like sunlight on still water—this poetry begins to shape the very rhythm of our days.

 

This sensation, overwhelming though it is, finds its closest echo for me in cinema. Whether foolish or profound, poetic or prosaic, true or illusory—films speak a language understood not by the mind alone, but by the heart and the senses alike. We do not merely watch them; we breathe them in, chew them over, savour their essence. And when rightly absorbed, they nourish us—imparting not only fashions and moods, but something akin to well-being, even a quiet joy that clings to the spirit like a fragrance long after the final frame has faded.

 

A House Once Glorious: Remembering Yash Raj and the Slow Return of Grace

— A personal reckoning with disillusionment and the cautious rekindling of trust in a faltering cinematic legacy.

 

I cannot now recall the last occasion on which I watched a film bearing the venerable insignia of Yash Raj Films. This absence was not born of any quarrel with the house itself—for what could one hold against a name that once conjured such splendour? Rather, it was sorrow, not scorn, that kept me away—a quiet disenchantment with the direction the studio had taken. What had once been a mausoleum of storytelling, painstakingly built brick-by-brick under the discerning eye of Yash uncle and his noble companions, seemed now adrift—its legacy bruised by unwise commerce and the eager but fumbling hands of a younger generation.

 

When their grand spectacles—laden with stars and noise—began to stumble and fall like overfed giants, there came, almost miraculously, a film called Chak De. I did not see it, and yet I noticed it. Not because of the ever-bankable presence of Shahrukh Khan, but because, by all accounts, here at last was a film where the story—not the stardust—held the reins. Content, they said, was king. I believed them, and that belief felt like the faint pulse of a studio remembering its soul.

 

When Fanaa was in the making, I took note—for Ravi K. Chandran, a cherished friend, was behind the lens, and Aamir Khan, whose family I have known with long affection, played the lead. And yet I stayed away. There was something missing—an indescribable vigour, a heartbeat I could not hear.

 

Then came Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi, and though again Ravi lent his gifted eye to the project, and though it marked the debut of Anushka Sharma—a young lady from my own city of Bangalore who had, by happy coincidence, modelled for some dear friends in fashion—it still left me unmoved. The glimpses I caught on television seemed hollow, like an echo of a song once lovely but now too often sung.

 

And so time slipped by, as it always does, with quiet indifference. Then, just last week, in one of those aimless hours when one neither thinks nor dreams with purpose, I found myself perusing the current cinema listings. Amidst the gaudy posters and forgettable titles, one image caught my eye—Band Baaja Baaraat. I knew nothing of it. I had seen no preview, read no review. Yet something in its posture—unguarded, almost cheerful—drew me in. And so, without expectation or reason, I resolved to see it.

 

The Arrival of an Uncut Gem: Ranveer Singh and the Restoration of Sincerity

— A tribute to the rare authenticity of a debut performance, and the hope it offers to a weary industry.

 

With no expectation save the mild curiosity awakened by a well-designed poster, I found myself seated in the dim hush of the cinema, awaiting what I presumed would be a passable diversion. But scarcely had the opening credits faded and the narrative begun to unfurl, when I beheld for the first time the countenance of Ranveer Singh. And in that moment, I knew—with the kind of quiet certainty one rarely experiences—that I would remain with this film to its very end.

 

For here was no mere performer straining to impress. No, Ranveer’s presence was of a different order: one felt an immediate and effervescent euphoria, not shouted but shared, as though he had stumbled upon the art of touching hearts without ever seeming to try. His energy was not the exhausting sort, but a buoyant current, tempered with an innocence rare and a dignity rarer still. It struck me, as I watched, that such a quality had long been absent from our screens—perhaps forgotten altogether in an age increasingly enamoured with spectacle and artifice.

 

As the story wove on, my admiration deepened. The lad carried his role with such ease, such intuitive grace, that one might be tempted to forget the labour behind the craft. I thought to myself, If only he resists the glittering temptation to ascend too swiftly by way of those directors whose reputations are large, but whose works are hollow… For in our times, it is all too easy to confuse fame with mastery, and many a fine talent has been spent in service of mediocrity disguised as vision.

 

If he remains unswerving—if he chooses scripts that stretch rather than flatter him, and continues to refine the subtle sensitivity already evident in his art—then I do not believe he will falter. He may stumble, yes, as all men do when treading uncertain ground. But fall? I think not.

 

The very next day, I came upon a report in the newspaper which told me that young Ranveer had publicly expressed his gratitude to the filmmakers for entrusting him with the role, acknowledging the risk they had taken in casting an unknown. But I must confess, my thoughts ran quite the other way. It is not Ranveer who owes thanks to Yash Raj Films, but they who ought to thank him. For in his performance, they found not only the beating heart of Band Baaja Baaraat, but a long-overdue revival of their own reputation—a resurrection, if you will, from a season of lacklustre offerings.

 

Indeed, fortune smiled on both: on Ranveer, for being placed in a role no one—save perhaps a Shahid Kapur—could have honoured so convincingly; and on YRF, for having found in him an uncut gem who has, by sheer authenticity, restored to them a measure of lost glory.

 

Of Restraint and Radiance: Anushka Sharma and the Grace of Simplicity

— A reflection on quiet strength, natural talent, and the virtue of not seeking more than one is.

 

As I have previously confessed, I hold a quiet fondness for Anushka Sharma—one that stems not merely from her roots in my own city, but from her auspicious debut in a film captured by the discerning lens of my friend, Ravi K. Chandran. It is true, I have not followed her career with any particular diligence since then, and yet, Band Baaja Baaraat has made something plain to me: when rightly cast and sensitively directed, she reveals herself as an actress of genuine substance.

 

There is no denying the charm of her presence—she occupies the screen with a confidence that neither demands nor pleads for attention, but earns it by the quiet force of authenticity. What is most striking, perhaps, is her restraint: she does not fall prey to the theatrical excesses that often mar the performances of the inexperienced. One senses that she understands—perhaps instinctively—that her natural self is already a gift well worth offering. She does not embellish what needs no ornament.

 

From this point onward, I shall be watching with interest, and with hope. My wish for her is simple: that she may be granted not merely roles, but worthy roles—those that speak to her vision of herself and stretch the fine thread of her talent without fraying it. For she has already shown that she can deliver what is required; she now deserves the opportunity to deliver what is great.

 

Craft over Clatter: On Directorial Integrity and the Return of Honest Storytelling

— An appreciation of the film’s creators, their restraint, and the quiet truths embedded in their work.

 

As for the director, young Maneesh Sharma reveals himself to be a craftsman of no small ability. His touch is confident, his choices largely wise, and—most refreshing of all—he resists the garish indulgences that have become habitual within the Yash Raj fold. Gone, mercifully, are the improbable dream sequences set in alien landscapes more suited to travel brochures than human drama. In their place, we are given something far more precious: a story that breathes the air of its own soil, and a world that feels not manufactured but inhabited.

 

The screenplay by Habib Faisal does not dazzle with ornament, but it moves with purpose, taking us precisely where it intends. In its unassuming stride, it teaches—though never preaches—lessons not only of love, but of that rarer and nobler virtue: fellowship. It is a quiet truth, often neglected in tales of romance, that the greatest wonders are worked not by grand gestures alone, but in the steady labour of those whose souls are attuned to one another. This film remembers that, and honours it.

 

The music, too, deserves its applause. There is a vigour in the compositions—a liveliness not contrived but contagious. That the songs are bound closely to the plot gives them an integrity often missing in such fare. They belong, not as adornments, but as chapters in the story’s own rhythm.

 

I must, however, speak plainly of a moment where the film falters. The rupture between the two protagonists—Ranveer and Anushka—is portrayed with a kind of dramatic excess that strains belief. Now, I concede: human beings, when injured in matters of the heart, do not always behave nobly or even logically. But there is a line between the trivial and the petty, and here, I fear, the characters—having built something with mutual respect and effort—regress too sharply into the pettiness of petulant children. Their behaviour, so out of tune with the maturity they had hitherto displayed, pulled me momentarily from the world the film had so carefully constructed.

 

Yet despite this blemish, the film retains a quality too often lacking: freshness. The premise, though faintly reminiscent of The Wedding Planner, stands on its own with grace. The film draws from familiar wells, yes, but manages still to quench. There is a delicacy in the execution—a gentleness with which the story is handled—that made me forgive its reliance on certain time-worn tropes.

 

One moment, in particular, I found both delightful and quietly profound: the subtle satire on celebrity culture, and the unvarnished truth of how great stars descend upon weddings for a fee, like heavenly bodies hired for the evening. The scene in which Ranveer persuades a bride that the real star of her wedding is not a film idol but the man who has chosen to love her is, I think, a moment of quiet brilliance. For in it lies a deeper truth: that no glory, however loud, can outshine the quiet radiance of genuine affection. We need not wait for a Shahrukh Khan to bestow grace upon our lives; we need only open our eyes to the everyday beloved, and recognise the wonder already at hand.

 

Of Intimacy, Language, and the Courage to Be True

— A contemplation on evolving femininity, emotional nuance, and the quiet rebellion of being natural in a world of deception.

 

There were, I must add, certain subtleties within the film that struck me as both refreshing and admirably honest. Chief among them was the portrayal of a young woman who does not retreat into shame or self-reproach for having expressed her desire physically. There is no hollow drama here, no overwrought moralising—only a quiet, sincere rendering of a moment shared between two people who, in that instant, are simply human.

 

What followed—those immediate, inarticulate tremors of confusion and consequence—was, I felt, handled with remarkable finesse. The film captures with rare precision how the subconscious, that hidden architect of our emotions, silently infiltrates the conscious mind. A subtle shift in language—from tu to tum—becomes a symbol of distance and delicacy, of intimacy altered by awareness. Such a small detail, and yet so telling; for often in love, it is not what is said, but how it is said, that tells us whether we are drawing nearer or drifting away.

 

It is also noteworthy how the film reflects the quiet evolution of society—how women, in particular, are increasingly at ease with their agency, even in matters that once bore a cloak of secrecy or shame. The dignity with which this shift is portrayed speaks well of the filmmakers, and gives the audience a chance to reflect without being instructed.

 

And now, if I may turn to a different, more corporeal observation: I have noticed a curious trend of late in our cinema—the pursuit of an almost androgynous aesthetic among leading men, as if masculinity were something to be polished away. One sees them waxed and gleaming, as though sculpted not by nature but by the same pretence that prepares a showroom dummy. Ranveer Singh, to his quiet credit, has resisted this tide. Though he bears a physique that might tempt any man toward vanity, he preserves a look that is unmanufactured, a body that still belongs to the species that builds, breaks, and bleeds.

 

 

It may seem a trivial point, and yet I would argue it is not. There is something noble in allowing men to look like men and women to look like women, not by rigid standards, but by the unspoken dignity of being true to one’s own form. For in a world ever blurring its lines, there is still room—indeed, a need—for distinction. And in this, Ranveer earns one more mark of quiet praise.

 

A Plea for Imagination: On Legacy, Gratitude, and the Courage to Choose Wisely

— A final exhortation to preserve creative integrity and remember the wellspring from which true storytelling flows.

 

In conclusion, it is my earnest hope that Aditya Chopra (Adi, as we call him)—and those who presently preside over the creative destiny of Yash Raj Films—will not allow the triumph of this particular work to dull the edge of their imagination. Success, though a sweet thing, is a dangerous counsellor. It often tempts its recipients to repetition rather than innovation, and in doing so, places at risk the very sparkle that won the victory in the first place. May they not fall into the weary habit of casting actors according to convenience or commercial certainty, thereby imperilling the very lives they have so carefully and providentially set into motion on the screen.

 

In green-lighting this screenplay, YRF have offered a quiet assurance to their audience—that they have, at last, begun to learn from the missteps of the past and are finding their way, however tentatively, back to the road of creative integrity. It is a hopeful sign. I recall with affection how Adi once gave my friend, Jimmy Sheirgill, a fine platform in Mohabbatein, allowing a sincere talent to be seen and heard. And now, with this film, he has done something perhaps more urgent: he has given us Ranveer—a necessary breath of fresh air in a cinematic world stifled by dynastic surnames and the dull entitlement they too often carry.

 

For too long now, we have watched a parade of the well-connected and ill-prepared walk across our screens with no understanding of the craft they pretend to possess. They are given opportunity upon opportunity, as if inheritance were a substitute for insight. In contrast, here is a young man who possesses not only energy but humility, not only talent but the willingness to shape it. For bringing such a one to light, Adi deserves, not flattery, but thanks.

 

And should he, in future days, find himself again uncertain of what stories to tell or whom to trust in the telling of them, I would simply say: do not look too far, dear Adi. Knock gently upon the door of Yash Uncle’s legacy—the wisdom is there, waiting. And if you listen closely, I believe you will not go wrong.