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THE CHAPTER WORTH READING


 

By the age of thirty-eight, Theodore Bell had become a curator of catastrophes that had not yet occurred. He could ruin a Tuesday with a Thursday that existed only in imagination. Breakfast frequently tasted of next month’s anxieties. He rehearsed conversations no one intended to have, mourned friendships that remained perfectly intact, and apologised for offences he had not committed. His life possessed all the drama of a great Victorian novel, except that every chapter unfolded completely within his own skull. Then, one peculiar Wednesday, something extraordinary happened. Nothing. The train arrived precisely on time. Rain fell with impeccable English manners. The cashier smirked. A pigeon inspected a croissant with the solemnity of a bishop. The world, Theodore noticed, had neglected to participate in the tragedy he had so carefully prepared. He wandered into a second-hand bookshop solely because he had never before entered one without first consulting reviews. On a dusty shelf lay a notebook bound in green leather. Across its first page someone had written:

 

“Suppose your life is merely the first draft of a novel. Would your protagonist truly spend six consecutive chapters wondering whether he had sounded foolish at lunch?”

 

Theodore laughed aloud. Not because it was funny. Because it was embarrassingly accurate. He purchased the notebook for three pounds and seventeen pence. That evening he conducted a peculiar experiment. Whenever indecision appeared, he refused to ask, “What is the safest thing to do?” Instead he questioned, “What would make this chapter worth reading?” The difference was astonishing. Rather than eating another lonely microwave supper, the protagonist wandered into an Italian restaurant despite having no companion. He ordered dessert first. He spoke with the elderly waiter about olives, opera, and why elderly gentlemen always seemed to know the location of excellent wine. 

 

The chapter improved immediately.

 

The following morning, in lieu of declining an invitation to join colleagues for coffee because he feared awkward silence, the protagonist accepted. The silence lasted approximately four seconds. Then somebody confessed they had once confused a funeral procession for a parade and accidentally applauded. Everyone tittered until tears arrived. Apparently awkwardness, Theodore discovered, often possessed an unexpectedly generous sense of humour. 

 

Soon the experiment expanded.

 

The protagonist bought flowers without requiring an anniversary. He wore the ridiculous emerald waistcoat hiding for years in the wardrobe awaiting an occasion sufficiently important to justify velvet buttons. He walked home through the rain rather than beneath umbrellas simply to discern whether novels exaggerated the romance of becoming soaked. They did not. It was marvellous. People began remarking that Theodore looked different. “What changed?” they quizzed. He never knew quite how to answer. Nothing had changed except the narrator. The voice inside his head had retired from its post as prosecutor and accepted employment as storyteller. Instead of declaring, “This is dreadful.” It now whispered, “Well... this should make for an interesting paragraph.”

 

Failures became plot twists. Embarrassments transformed into dialogue. Unexpected delays evolved into opportunities for side characters. Even grief acquired gentleness. When Theodore’s beloved aunt passed away, he uncovered that stories do not become beautiful by avoiding sorrow. They become beautiful because sorrow teaches every joyful page how precious it truly was.

 

One autumn afternoon he returned to the same second-hand bookshop hoping to ascertain who had written the mysterious sentence. The owner frowned. “What notebook?”

“The green one.”

“We’ve never sold green notebooks.”

Theodore insisted.

The proprietor searched every shelf. Nothing. Not even an empty space. He left puzzled. Perhaps memory had embroidered reality. Perhaps someone had misplaced the evidence. Or perhaps stories occasionally slipped helpful sentences into people’s lives without troubling themselves over authorship.

 

Years later, Theodore grew old. His hair surrendered with admirable dignity. His knees negotiated every staircase like diplomats concluding difficult treaties. Wrinkles arrived carrying maps of countless simpers. One evening, his granddaughter climbed upon his lap holding a blank notebook. “Grandad,” she asked, “I’m frightened I’ll make mistakes.” He smiled the sort of smile only accumulated years can produce. “My dear,” he replied, “mistakes are merely scenes before the editor arrives.” She frowned. “But what if people laugh at me?”

“Then you’ve accidentally written a comedy.”

“And what if everything goes wrong?”

“Ah,” Theodore expressed, “that depends totally.”

“On what?”

“Whether you’re reading your life as a police report...” He paused. “...or as a story.”

She thought about this for several silent moments before opening the notebook. “What shall I write first?”

Theodore glanced through the window. Outside, autumn leaves were dancing with absolutely no concern for symmetry. A dog had become convinced that chasing its own tail constituted a noble profession. Two strangers were chuckling over something the wind immediately carried away. The entire earth felt gloriously unconcerned with acting sensible. He beamed. “Begin,” he said, “with someone who finally stopped trying to be perfect and became intriguing instead.”

 

For that, after all, is the curious secret no anxious mind ever wishes to believe. Life is rarely asking us to perform flawlessly. It is utterly waiting for us to become a character worth following to the next page.


LITTLE JOYS



It was a dusky sort of afternoon, the kind that dangles between tea and twilight, with the sun loafing about like a lazy aristocrat—too proud to set, too idle to shine. The drawing room, with its high-backed chairs and bookshelves bowing under the weight of Tolstoy and gin bottles, basked in the quietude of a house that had, mercifully, survived our adolescence.

 

There we were—two brothers, born of the same mother and yet wildly divergent creatures—he, the sensible sort with a mind like a filing cabinet; I, a chaotic poet at war with socks and sobriety.

 

I swirled a glass of something I pretended to remember pouring, the amber liquid catching the light like mischief caught mid-prank. Leaning back with a dramatic sigh, I asked, “What do you get when you meld whiskey, wine and vodka, my kiddo?”

 

He looked up from his infernal Sudoku, eyebrows raised like an Oxford don presented with a haiku. “You get drunk. That’s what you get.”

 

“Naah!” I waved a dismissive hand, nearly decapitating a houseplant. “What you get when you meld whiskey, wine and vodka is a heroically outstanding spot of kindred spirits in a single, walking and talking embodiment, and that embodiment is you, my kiddo!”

 

He blinked once. Then, with the exasperated patience of a man forced to share a flat with a Shakespearean parrot, he replied, “Headache.”

 

“Huh?”

 

“That concoction will result in a headache,” he said, dragging out each syllable as though translating for the emotionally impaired, “if you happen to remember what happened to begin with… just like you,” he paused, eyes twinkling with impish delight, “are my biggest headache!”

 

A silence fell. Not the funereal kind, but the combustible kind—the sort that precedes either a duel or a bellyache of laughter.

 

And then we detonated. Boisterous laughter ricocheted off the walls, toppling decorum like dominoes. He lunged forward, gave me one of those rare, brisk, manly hugs—just long enough to convey brotherhood, but short enough to maintain dignity—and dashed off like some Victorian street urchin with an overdue library book.

 

I remained there, marinating in mirth, staring after him as though he were both ghost and gift.

 

You may have your scholars, your sages, your philosophers. But I, dear reader, possess a younger brother—a paradox wrapped in sarcasm, dipped in reason, and lightly toasted in charm. He is a walking contradiction, an accidental cocktail of virtue and vice, with just a splash of ridiculousness.

 

And let me tell you something most true.

 

My little brother is the coolest spirit in the room.

 

REMEMBERING THE ANCIENT RHYTHMS OF THE SOUL






PART 1




The author Richard Sennett said that sometimes it helps to see ourselves by stepping into another person’s shoes, that looking at how cultures quite foreign to our own assess social capital and cooperation we can learn far more than what we have been taught. He explained that modern China offers one way to do so; that is have a strong ‘code’ for social cohesion, despite the fact that the country is aggressively capitalist lately, and that this ‘code’ is what the Chinese call guanxi. The systems analyst Yuan Luo describes guanxi as ‘an intricate and pervasive relational network which the Chinese cultivate energetically, subtly, and imaginatively’. The network means a Chinese immigrant feels free to call on a third cousin in a foreign city for a loan, while at home, it is the shared experiences and memories among friends, rather than written contracts or laws, that lay the foundations for trust in business dealings. In families, guanxi has a further reach in the practice common to many non-Western societies of young people sending home whatever they can spare of their usually meagre wages, rather than spending all that they earn on themselves. ‘Duty’ better names these social relations than ‘social capital’. 

So is honour a better name some ask? Well, in a way, yes, Guanxi invokes honour as a key ingredient of social relations. Douglas Guthrie, an American student of Chinese guanxi, explains that it is akin to the old Western business code, ‘My word is my bond.’ You can count on other people in the network, especially when the going gets tough; they are honour-bound to support you rather than take advantage of your weakness. Also, one must keep in mind that Guanxi entails something other than sympathy; people in the network criticise one another, and they nag each other; they may not be nice to one another, but they feel obliged to prove helpful when the occasion arises. And in many ways than one, this code of guanxi is an example of how a social bond can shape economic life and bail one out of the doldrums. To throw some more light on it, guanxi, in essence, as a bond, is informal in character, establishing a network of support outside a rigid circle of established rules and regulations. The bond is a necessity in the fast-changing, often chaotic conditions of China especially today, since many of its official rules are dysfunctional; the informal, personal network helps people go around these, in order, to survive and prosper. 

The value of informal cohesion is not new, it has already appeared to us, in say dialogic exchanges, whether in a conversation or in the community organisation. The West, however, wants to establish the scope of these exchanges in its society, but, the bigger question is: do they have an equal practical value as they do for the Chinese? And the answer lies in two reasons why the West might want to think like the Chinese about cooperation. 

First, if informal, the guanxi network is also meant to be sustainable. Sometime in the future, the one who gets help will give it back in a form neither party may now foresee, but knows will occur. Guanxi is a relationship meant to endure from generation to generation. By the standards of a Western contract, there’s no reality in such an ill-defined expectation; for the Chinese student, government worker or businessman, the expectation itself is solid, because people in the network punish, or shun those, who later prove unresponsive. It is a question for us of holding people accountable in the future for their actions in the present. 

Secondly, people in a guanxi network are not ashamed of dependency. You can establish guanxi with someone who needs you, or whom you need, beneath or above you in the pecking order. The Chinese family, as traditionally in other societies, has been a site of dependency without shame, and shame has become deeply associated in Western culture with self-control; losing control over your body, or your words, has become a source of shame. Modern family life, and, even more, modern business practice, has extended the idea of self-containment: dependency on others is taken to be a sign of weakness, a failure to promote autonomy and self-sufficiency; the autonomous individual appears free. But looked at from the perspective of a different culture, the Chinese or the Asian culture, a person who prides him-or-herself on not asking for help appears a deeply damaged human being; fear of social embeddedness dominates his or her life. 

As you can see, guanxi in itself is congenial in spirit; so too, I suspect, would settlement-house workers and community activists a century ago, who were congenial, and sharing, and giving despite of having to be a part of the Western world. The common thread is an emphasis on the qualities of a social relationship, on the power of duty and honour. A culture can be ferocious. It can be capitalist like it is in China at the moment. By our standards, that fact seems difficult to reconcile with culture practises, still, some Chinese believe that guanxi is beginning to break down as the country more and more comes to resemble the West in its ways of parenting, working and consuming. While all cultures have their pros and cons, it would be nice to know why certain aspects of the Western culture has this corrosive effect on people and thinking. 



PART 2



The recent epidemic of unprecedented proportions; the Covid-19, or Corona as it is commonly known, has caught us off-guard, and though one is led to feel regret, more so for the ones hit by the economic uncertainty the world over, one wishes, however, that we human beings realise from this strain that the first thing we need to do is to slow down, and maybe attempt to plant a seed and watch it until the flower grows. That the instant gratification culture of ours has nearly ruined all that we hold dear, and until we find meaning in what we say and do, our world will be as chaotic as it was when we were accelerating at the speed of light without the light in sight.


PARENTING


Trying times nearly always reveal the true faces: there is no time to put on masks, and likewise, history has taught us, especially from the stories that have emerged from war, that you see a pristine, almost primeval side of compassion when faced with life-threatening situations. These times are no less than war, and it is at this stage that we need to erase the prejudices we may hold towards attitudes and people so that we can collectively work towards the betterment of the community. Let us take hugging for example. It is an intrinsic part of our culture in Asia, and furthermore, as Muslim, we have no qualms in holding hands of our male friends, coiling our arm round our best friend’s neck, wrestling with each other so as to laugh our lungs (and in some cases our guts out), kiss on the cheeks when we greet, and touch our noses like the Arabs do in order to feel a closeness, a connection, togetherness, and it is here that I would like to extend the concept of guanxi to matters of personal dealings rather than keeping it limited merely to business traditions as I explained above. 

None of us, from this side of the world, look at any of the aforementioned human contact with anything else than the feeling of intimacy, whereas, some of them, the newer generation, think that such a behaviour between people of the same gender is unhealthy. When questioned about why they think such behaviour is unhealthy, one hears: I have seen it on the telly, or read an article that any form of touch is not a good touch. We can talk from a distance, civilly, as human beings do, right. Why touch each other? This is where I suspect that parenting is failing us miserably, especially the parenting that has grown on Western principles and does not quite discern the difference between what is acceptable and what is off-limits. Let me throw further light on this with regard to some of the detrimental ways of the West: while in the process of writing this piece, I happened to watch a Spanish television series, where a young man’s grandmother walks into the room when her grandson and his best friend are exchanging a hug before the friend is leaving his friend’s home. The old lady rolls her eyes and states, ‘When two men hug each other, they have to be gay, or actors.’ It was as if this scenario was tailored to help me write on it in this piece; for starters, being a heterosexual male, I was, at once, put off by that very manner of looking at something as beautiful as a hug being coated with something as preposterous as a sexual connotation, and so my next question is:


CONSUMPTION


Why are we letting this unhealthy Western philosophy make room in our hearts? Why are we letting the West inject their unhealthy mind sciences into our healthy minds? When we Asian, Arab, men meet, we do all that I said we did in the preceding paragraphs, and know that what such an act of camaraderie did was make us feel wanted, and loved, and that simple lack of feeling love and the feeling of being wanted was turning the Western populace into touch starved monsters, and such people ended up being depressed, violent or even suicidal. Don’t you think it is time that the West learnt from us Asians, Arabs how to greet and meet and live with each other? And get rid of the ‘I, Me, Myself’ doctrine of behaviour that is killing them? Could they not loosen up so that they would indeed not feel deprived of touch, of love, an essential component of keeping a human being in behaving like a human being - something that is more depressing and lonely than a strain of virus that has left us arrested, and at home, in a state of uncertain lockdown?


WORKING


An additional, injurious Western concept that we are implementing in our cohesive society is that of nuclear families. The West thinks that to stay with family after a certain age is being less an individual, and they would go any lengths to fight for preserving their individuality. They have failed to understand, most simply, that there is immense power in unity, and that we need the support of our loved ones, just as much as they need us, at any given time of our lives. And the Covid-19 has brought to light examples of this decay that we have willingly subjected ourselves into: nearly everything, in nearly every part of the world, is in a state of suspension, and the jarring psychological, as well as physical impact such an isolation has had on people has devastated them, while the families that lived together have managed to combat loneliness, the management of children, and whatever the rest of the demons were, with much ease. Also, what something like this does, at its basest, is that it teaches us  humility,  tolerance, and compromise, and it renews in us the fact that the only bond that keeps us together is love, and in extreme circumstances, where it is inevitable to live under one roof, one must try and live close to each other so that you can be separate, and yet together, just so that the fine fibre of love remains intact. 

It is not merely about geographical zones, creeds, cultures, or communities. It is not about who is good and who is bad, what is good and what is bad, it is only about the mindset, and adopting the positively best from the various zones, creeds, cultures and communities. Let me put it this way: we love our bodies. We workout and we keep a tab on our diet by treating our bodies like we would do a shrine in order to keep it running efficiently. However, when we are struck with an ailment, we visit the specialist without delay, and get rid of what was limiting us, and this is where I ask, when we do that to our body, couldn’t we apply that mindset to our minds too? 

I would like to end this with something I was reading by Josh Radnor. It said, but it’s the arc of every great fairy tale, right? We leave home (the comfortable, the familiar) to journey into the dark wood. Only there – in the terrifying shadow – are we able to confront our fears and push past our limitations. In that battle we are transformed so that when we return home, we return home changed, upgraded, and bearing gifts for those we love (In a neat twist, our actual homes are the current dark wood.) 

The only way I can get through something like this is to view it in these mythic dimensions, to understand that this supremely odd world-wide moment we are all sharing provides us with a divine opportunity to see what we are really made of. To transform our lives and our world for the better. Or as Francis Weller recently put it, “This is a season of remembering the ancient rhythms of soul. It is a time to become immense.”


SOMETHING SWEET FOR YOU



A young man stood accused of having stolen a motorbike. Whether he had indeed committed the deed was never rightly proven. Yet, owing solely to the fact that he belonged to a certain community—deemed suspect not by evidence but by prejudice—he was seized, bound to a tree, and beaten with such merciless fury that life itself was scourged from his body.

 

The incident stirred a cry of righteous indignation among one portion of the populace, whose hearts recoiled at such barbarity. Yet on the other side—among those who had laid violent hands upon him—there was a grim satisfaction, for they had forced from his bruised lips the recitation of sacred words, not in reverence, but as a cruel theatre of submission. They took perverse pride in this, believing that his death, thus orchestrated, would stand as a dread proclamation: that any who dared to walk a different path, or speak with an unapproved tongue, would find themselves likewise silenced—by blood, by terror, and by the mockery of the holy.

 

To be outraged upon hearing of such an incident is no more than the proper instinct of any soul not wholly estranged from its humanity. We shudder at the sight of animals slain—even when such deaths serve the ancient and necessary order of the food chain—and we devise intricate justifications to soothe our consciences, urging that such grim necessities be restrained or refined. And yet, when the life of a fellow human being is snuffed out in broad daylight, butchered before the eyes of the world, the response—uttered with chilling ease—is simply this: He deserved it.

 

When one dares to express even the gentlest aversion to harming a breathing creature—or hesitates, with quiet reverence, to shatter even that which is lifeless—one is swiftly admonished: These are not the times for free speech. Very well then, let us, for a moment, concede to this assertion. But let us also peer, however briefly, into the archives of history. Pray tell, when have the times ever belonged to free speech? Has the candid utterance of one’s mind ever been without peril? From age to age, the voice of reason has walked on embers, its tread unwelcome in the halls of power or amidst the tempests of public sentiment. No era has embraced sensibility with open arms; no generation has lavished support upon balance and thoughtful restraint. Time and again, the voice of measured conscience has been stifled—not because it lacked merit, but precisely because it bore too much of it, and thus posed a threat to the fragile scaffolding of society’s illusions.

 

And so we arrive at the inevitable question: What has become of the world? Do those who stoke the fires of hatred and devastation truly fail to see that the inferno consumes them as well? That hatred is not a weapon one hurls without injury to oneself—but a slow, poisonous draught that corrodes the soul from within long before it ever touches its intended target? One wonders whether many would even venture a reply to such reflections. For we live in a time when philosophy is whispered about as though it were a ghost, and intellectual enquiry is pronounced obsolete, if not outright dangerous.

 

And it is precisely here that the field of moral psychology offers a glimmer of illumination. For its questions are as ancient as they are urgent: How do children come to understand rules, especially those concerning fairness? By what means do they distinguish right from wrong? Are they born as blank slates, as John Locke posited—waiting for the world to inscribe its lessons upon them? Or do they enter this world already endowed, as Charles Darwin contended, with the seeds of wisdom, the stirrings of empathy, and the flickering’s of a moral imagination already in motion? In pondering these questions, we begin not merely to search the minds of children, but to examine the soul of our age.

 

Professor Jonathan Haidt poses a question both incisive and unsettling: If morality shifts across cultures and through the passages of time, how then can it be said to be innate? Surely, whatever moral compass we possess must have been acquired in childhood—shaped by experience, moulded by custom, and impressed upon us by the voices of our elders, instructing us in what is right and what is wrong.

 

It is a query that strikes at the very root of the matter. For if moral truths are not written upon the soul at birth, but rather scribbled there by the hand of circumstance, what then becomes of the claim that conscience is universal? Are we merely echo chambers of the age and soil in which we are reared? Or might it be that the moral sense, though coloured by culture, springs from deeper waters—present in all, though not always sung in the same key?

 

Jean Piaget, one of the foremost minds in developmental psychology, began his intellectual pilgrimage with a deep fascination for the natural transformations of the animal world—marvelling at the mysterious progressions that carry a humble caterpillar toward the splendour of a butterfly. In time, he turned this fascination toward children, bringing with him a keen interest in the stages by which human understanding unfolds. His aim was no less ambitious than to trace the emergence of adult reason—so nuanced, so deft—from the seemingly primitive and fumbling thoughts of the child. He sought to understand how the cognitive butterfly takes wing from the larval beginnings of early thought.

 

Piaget was convinced that children possess a remarkable instinct for discovering moral truths. Yet, he also laid bare the peculiar missteps they make along the way—errors not of wickedness, but of innocence, shaped by a mind still awakening to the world’s complexity.

 

To illustrate this, Piaget devised a simple but telling experiment. He would pour equal amounts of water into two identical glasses and ask the child whether the two held the same quantity. Naturally, the child would affirm that they did. But then, with the gentlest sleight of hand, he would pour the contents of one glass into a taller, narrower vessel and ask again. Children below the age of six or seven would often insist that the taller glass now held more water, convinced by the mere rise in water level, unable to grasp the constancy of volume beneath the changing shape. The water, of course, remained the same, but the child’s mind had not yet ripened to perceive it.

 

What Piaget revealed through this and other observations was profound: the understanding of such fundamental concepts is neither innate nor simply handed down from adult to child. It cannot be summoned by instruction alone. No matter how clearly an adult might explain the principle of conservation, the child cannot yet take hold of it—because the soil of the mind has not yet been tilled for such seed. Comprehension, in Piaget’s view, requires more than information; it demands the convergence of age, experience, and a readiness of mind—a stage in which the intellect itself has been shaped by life into a vessel fit to contain understanding.

 

Piaget, ever the tireless observer of the growing mind, extended his cognitive-developmental approach into the land of children’s morality. With remarkable humility and devotion, he would lower himself—quite literally—to the child’s world, getting down on hands and knees to join them in a game of marbles. While engaged in their play, he would intentionally break the rules or feign ignorance, inviting correction not through lecture, but through participation. The children, in their earnest responses to his intentional blunders, revealed much more than annoyance—they unveiled the dawning of moral understanding: their capacity to uphold rules, to modify them in the spirit of fairness, to take turns, and—most critically—to resolve disputes among themselves.

 

This moral awakening, like all growth in Piaget’s theory, unfolded in discernible stages, each rooted in the maturing of the child’s cognitive powers. He discerned that a child’s sense of right and wrong does not descend fully formed from the mouths of adults, nor does it spring ready-made from within. Rather, it is self-wrought—constructed painstakingly through lived experience with peers, through conflict and cooperation, through the very messiness of life shared.

 

In Piaget’s metaphorical world, the learning that takes place through games is not unlike pouring water between glasses—repeated, observable, yet misunderstood by minds not yet prepared. No matter how many times he demonstrated the notion of fairness to three-year-olds, they, like with the concept of volume, simply could not yet comprehend it. Their moral reasoning, like their spatial reasoning, lay dormant, awaiting maturation.

 

But something remarkable occurred as the children reached the age of five or six. It was not sermons, nor adult decrees, but the wrangling over rules, the quarrels and reconciliations among themselves, that forged in them a far more authentic understanding of fairness. From such simple negotiations, they came to know what no formal instruction could effectively impart.

 

And herein lies the heart of what Piaget—and psychological rationalism more broadly—proclaims: that rationality is not a divine gift granted in full at birth, but a seed that unfolds through time, through trial, through interaction. Just as the caterpillar inches slowly toward its winged glory, so too do we grow into moral creatures, equipped—through the refinement of reason and the crucible of experience—to grapple with life’s complexities and dwell in harmony with others. Rationality, Piaget believed, is our nature—but its full flowering, the summit of sound moral judgment, is the destination of our development, not its starting point.

 

Piaget’s framework, though forged in the quiet domain of childhood psychology, lends itself with striking clarity to the broader stage of our troubled world. One might well surmise that it shall take not one, but four or five generations to recalibrate the prevailing mindset—for the spirit of our age is perilously steeped in dichotomy: ever for or against, seldom seeking the golden mean. This rigidity is no accident; it is the fruit of dogmas incessantly drilled into pliable minds, not through reflection but repetition.

 

Children, ambiguous by nature and impressionable by design, absorb the dispositions of their parents as surely as soil draws in rain. And raised amidst the fog of weariness and confusion—where the air is thick with grievance and fear—they will likely inherit not only the prejudices of their forebears, but amplify them. They will not merely echo their parents’ antipathies, but resound them with fresh intensity.

 

Yet history, like nature, abides by a certain rhythm. And as is the way of human development—mirroring Piaget’s own vision—those who grow up burdened by the excesses of their parents often yearn to become their opposites. Thus, out of the ashes of prolonged discord, there may arise a generation whose hunger is not for vengeance, but for virtue; not for division, but for harmony. In them, balance may be reborn, and with it, the long-lost moral clarity of a wiser age. Such a generation might raise their children not on the stale bread of hatred, but on the fresh manna of fairness, compassion, and goodwill.

 

True, none of us walking the earth today may live to see that blessed dawn. We are, perhaps, too near the fire to behold the spring that shall follow this winter of discontent. But even so, let us not despair. For though we may not witness the fruit, we may yet plant the seed. And with hearts turned heavenward, we may hope—nay, pray—that the day hastens when mankind shall be graced with the long-desired luxury of peace: a world not ruled by fear, but shaped by understanding; not hardened by violence, but softened by love.

 

One takes up arms, not in the spirit of conquest, but when the very roots of one’s being appear imperilled; one strikes at the throat only when life itself seems poised upon the edge of annihilation—when the law of the jungle, survival of the fittest, becomes not theory but imminent threat. And yet, by every measure of reason and fairness, the minority communities presently subjected to hostility pose neither such threat nor challenge to the dominant majority in any corner of the world. They seek neither dominion nor duel; they do not arise in defiance, but endure in quiet perseverance.

 

Why then does the majority, wielding the greater power and influence, so often behave as though besieged? Why do they, like the children in Piaget’s experiment, fail to perceive the immutable truth—that the contents are the same even when the vessel shifts in form? Is it so difficult to grasp that despite differences in appearance, belief, or custom, the essential humanity within is no less sacred, no less real?

 

And if, as so often declared, the minority is deemed inconsequential by the majority, what then explains the depth of this irrational fear and the frequent descent into cruelty? Chastisement, where due, may be comprehended—even justice, when applied with compassion, has its place. But what of the impulse to brutalise? Ought not the stronger to safeguard the weaker, as a parent protects the child—not out of pity, but out of the superiority conferred by strength?

 

Why then has the taking of innocent lives become a grotesque pastime, indulged without remorse? What is such savagery, if not the most pitiable display of cowardice? For to massacre the unarmed, the defenceless, is not an assertion of might but a confession of terror—terror that gnaws at the soul even in the seat of power. And what, pray, has one to fear, when one is already master of the land?

 

It is not the minority that threatens the majority, but rather the reflection in the glass—distorted by pride and prejudice—that renders the heart blind to reason. And if such blindness persists, it is not the minority that shall perish, but the very moral fabric of the majority’s soul.

 

Concerning the minority, one is compelled to wonder: what is it that renders them so unyielding? They are acutely aware of their own powerlessness, and one might suppose that such perilous circumstances would incline them to seek conciliation rather than confrontation. And yet, they persist in resisting the tide, as though daring fate itself. Why?

 

Surely they must perceive that, in truth, there is little to be gained by defiance, and everything to be lost—chiefly their very lives. Let us take a breath and view the matter from another angle: when we greet a man in his native tongue, not because we must, but because it brings him comfort, do we not regard this as a gesture of goodwill? Then what great harm lies in uttering the phrases demanded of you, even under compulsion? One may rightly protest that such utterance is not born of affection but of coercion, not of liberty but of domination. This is true. Yet in a moment where no victory is attainable, does not prudence advise that one bow, not in spirit, but in posture?

 

After all, what is being asked may not belong to your creed, but it is not entirely foreign to your heritage. Do not mistake this concession for a betrayal of soul; it is not a matter of ego, but of brute force. And when force—not reason—governs the moment, self-preservation and the protection of one’s family must take precedence over the satisfaction of making a stand. Better to endure in silence than to perish in protest.

 

Some, no doubt, will call such restraint cowardice; others, defeatism or evasion. Let them. Let the world cast its judgments as it will. Your task is not to win their applause, but to steer your life with discernment. For in the end, I am is of far greater consequence than I was. In times of duress, wisdom lies not in reckless defiance, but in measured endurance.

 

One must choose life above all—above religion, above politics, above the proud impulse to make a point at any cost. For while you may believe you are honouring your principles by standing firm, it is your family who must carry the burden of your absence, should you fall as the young man did—beaten to death for no crime, save for being who he was. Let not your final act be one that leaves your loved ones bereft. Let it instead be an act of quiet strength: to live, to safeguard, to endure.

 

In conclusion, I present to you the Hindi short story Lynching, penned by the respected Hindi scholar, novelist, playwright, and fiction writer Asghar Wajahat. This poignant work has been rendered into English by my dear friend Rakshanda Jalil—a distinguished writer, critic, and literary historian—whose careful translation preserves the original’s profound spirit.


When the old woman was told that her grandson, Salim, had been lynched, she couldn’t quite understand it. There was no expression on her dark, wizened face or in her old, misty eyes. She covered her head with a tattered cloth. The word ‘Lynching’ was new for her. But she could guess that it was an English word. She had heard some English words earlier, too, and she knew what they meant. The first English word she had heard was ‘Pass’ when Salim had passed the first class. She knew what the word ‘Pass’ meant. The second word she had heard was ‘Job’. She understood that the word ‘Job’ meant getting employed. The third word she heard was ‘Salary’. She knew what that meant, too. The moment she would hear the word ‘Salary’, the scent of a roti being freshly cooked on a griddle wafted into her nostrils. She could guess that English words were good and the news about her grandson must be a good one. The old woman spoke in a contended tone, ‘May Allah Bless them!’

 

The boys looked at her in disbelief. They were wondering whether they should tell her the meaning of ‘Lynching’, or not. 

 

They did not have the strength to tell the old woman exactly what ‘Lynching’ was.

 

The old woman thought that she ought to bless the boys who had brought such good news to her.

 

She said, ‘My children, May Allah grant Lynching for all of you...Wait, I will get something sweet for you.’

 

 

Beatrix Potter - 150 Years



My enchanting Royal Mail Mint stamps of 150 Years of Beatrix Potter and The Tale of Peter Rabbit miniature sheet arrived in the mail this morning. Like a child exhilarated with his slab of chocolate, I jumped and I skipped and I hummed my favourite tunes around at the brilliance of how properly the pack had been presented. Once I was drained of my merriment, I sat quiet, and in my silence it struck me that being the visual-led world that it currently is, I ought to do better. So I extracted the contents from the transparent envelope and photographed it along with my vintage Reader’s Digest mini books, my 18th Century engraved ormolu petit point pin holder, and the tiny pencils that my mother had brought for me when I was a baby of two years from her trip to America. 

For those who are not familiar with the author, Helen Beatrix Potter (28 July 1866 – 22 December 1943) was an English writer, illustrator, natural scientist and conservationist best known for her children’s books featuring animals such as those in The Tale of Peter Rabbit. Born into a privileged household, Potter grew up isolated from other children. As entertainment, she had numerous pets, and often spent her holidays in Scotland and the Lake District. That is where she developed a love for the landscape, flora and fauna, all of which she closely observed and painted. Her study in watercolours of fungi led to her being widely respected in the field of mycology.

It was in her thirties that she published the highly successful children’s book, The Tale of Peter Rabbit and then she went onto write about thirty books in total.

All of the above I have collated from various sources on the Internet, though I must confess that I have not read a single volume of any works by Potter. When I was younger, I fancied books by those who were way beyond my understanding. I felt this feverishly internal need to want to be able to converse with somebody older, and with the same air and knowledge as them, and thus I lapped up Aristotle, Montaigne, Heidegger, Nietzsche, Foucault, Jung, Ovid, Keats, Burns, Byron, Shakespeare, Ackerman, Morris, Pinker, Eco and the list could go on. I also guess that as one gets older, one wants to be younger, and these days I find myself delighting in The Adventures of Tintin, to the melodramas of the mighty men – Spider, Super and Batman, blokes I was awfully allergic to in the years of growing up.  

What then lured me to write about Potter like I knew her work? I don’t know, really, like some people stand out in a crowd of many, and you cannot exactly tell why, her visuals just drew me. If I am to delve a bit deeper, then perhaps the harmony of the colours in her illustrations are something that I could not ignore. I found them to be alluring in the most charming manner. Like features are to a face, the animals she picked had a lot to do with the temperament of human beings too I suppose. I mean the reasons could be aplenty, but what matters is that she spoke to me, and I feel I know what I need to know of her by her visual representations, and for me that is enough to establish a connection with someone or something I haven’t actually met or known.